Hamlet has a habit of showing up in my life at strangely synchronicitous times.
Sunday, August 31, 2014
Hamlet has a habit of showing up in my life at strangely synchronicitous times.
Thursday, July 17, 2014
Also: by request, I have arranged it as a viola quartet, for those of you out there lucky enough to know four or more violists: download the score and parts here. I suppooooose theoretically you could also play it with up to three violin parts, but where's the fun in that.
While I'm in a sharing mood, I figure I should give you a taste of some of the musical products of the O'Neill 2014 National Puppetry Conference last month. The following tracks were created for the amazing and mesmerizing and extremely crush-worthy duo Red Fox / White Fox, aka Jordan Morley and Lisi Stoessel. Here they are performing their participant piece with live music created during improvisations in rehearsals with the very talented Diana Sussman (here on melodica):
Red Fox | White Fox @ the O'Neill Puppetry Conference 2014 from Jordan Morley on Vimeo.
Sunday, July 13, 2014
|Performing (on my new Luis & Clark viola) at the O'Neill showcase. Photo by Richard Termine.|
Thursday, July 10, 2014
Tesla's Pigeon was sung in this performance by soprano Chelsea Feltman, accompanied by Joseph Yungen. Photos here are by Amanda Aulicino:
Tuesday, April 29, 2014
Sometimes I really wish I could trust myself. But if I do, and the result is a giant smear of excrement, well, that won't do at all, will it?
In conclusion, I hate everything.
Saturday, April 05, 2014
And then ... then, in a small box on one page of the textbook, I learned about the slime mold. I can still clearly see the picture in the lower right corner: a tiny, nearly transparent wormlike creature formed from single-celled organisms that had come together like Voltron to move as one. And something indescribable happened to me. For a moment, I became delirious with love and awe for the slime mold. It was an uncontrollable manic happiness that pushed me out of my chair to skip about my room laughing. I wanted to tell the whole world about slime mold and how much I loved it. With renewed vigor, I kept studying and somehow I got a B+ in the exam.
And even though I quit med school not long afterward because I hated it so much, I still love slime mold, and I can't even explain why.
Anyway, now, apparently, other scientists perhaps afflicted with the same manic adoration are doing things like designing transportation systems and transforming computing with them.
You go, slime mold. You go.
Friday, March 28, 2014
I took the liberty of transcribing the lyrics:
O my love I yearn for you,
Your hair of gold, your eyes so blue.
O that you held me in your arms.
I am transported by your charms.
In a meadow sweet, in a secret valley,
Resting on my staff, I muse and tarry.
Fast I come to where to where my love doth lie,
And all my senses sense defy.
From my sleep, so deep, so long,
by the cock crowing loud,
I am aroused.
My dream is flown.
O my love I dream of you
in a meadow sweet
from my sleep, from my sleep
Your hair of gold
in a secret valley
so deep, so deep
Your eyes so blue
resting on my staff
I muse and tarry
Oh that you held me
by the cock
in your arms
crowing loud, crowing loud
I am transported
to where my love doth lie
I am aroused
by your charms, by your charms
and all my senses sense defy
My dream is flown
It's been a long time since I laughed that hard in an opera. Oh, Peter Maxwell Davies. I am so sure we would be friends.
Monday, February 03, 2014
When I was a very little girl, I was taken to music classes at a Yahama music school in Brisbane, Australia (first in Toowong, then Coorparoo). I enjoyed music, but I wasn't the kind of kid who obsessed over practicing; my mother had to threaten and bribe me constantly in those early years to make those lessons worth the ten dollars a week, in her eyes.
I didn't fall in love with classical music at first. What I really fell in love with was Mozart.
I don't know which came first: watching Amadeus on television (my parents were always very liberal about what I could watch on TV), or learning to play a simplified version of Mozart's Piano Sonata in C. Both these things must have occurred by the time I was seven, because at that age I already knew I was heart-flutteringly in love with a man who was 200 years dead—or at least, a fictionalized account of him. I overplayed that stupid sonata in my favorite key to death, and I gazed at Mozart's picture in the score and cried because he was dead, and I would never be his Constanze, who wasn't ever good enough for him anyway. I used to shut my eyes when I played because that way I felt more connected to him. God, I felt so connected to him.
That was the first step. The next came in my teens.
I suppose it's pretty well established that the adolescent brain is geared to obsess. By early high school, I had read so many Mozart biographies that I could rattle off dates and cities without thinking. I pored over a collection of Mozart's letters, memorizing his smutty doggerel poems; I even copied a few of them and kept them in my wallet, along with a laminated mini print-out of the Joseph Lange portrait. Looking back, it seems kind of crazy, but I suppose it's no more crazy than idolizing Justin Bieber (the hipster elitist in me thinks it's quite a bit less crazy, actually).
I saved up my allowance and begged for more money from my parents to attend Mozart concerts and operas, usually by myself. Here's where another obsession intersects and expands upon the first. I've mentioned before my teenaged devotion to Inspector Morse novels and television shows. Funny thing about Inspector Morse; it's one of those things that makes you want very badly to be clever and feel clever. It's full of literary and operatic and wordplay references that the average girl in her early teens doesn't understand, but it makes her desperately want to understand them. So she chases them all down, ravenously. She studies Latin. She researches Freemasons. She reads A.E. Housman. She learns how to do cryptic crosswords, steeping herself in all aspects of culture and drastically expanding her vocabulary in order to understand the clues. And of course, she listens to Wagner, and Puccini, and even more Mozart, and she takes herself to the opera, much to the bewilderment of her parents.
I think people underestimate how powerful something like, say, a book series or a movie can be when it comes to promoting an interest in related culture. This week, the Inspector Morse prequel series Endeavour appeared on Netflix, and after raptly devouring it, I remembered that I hadn't done a cryptic crossword in years. The Guardian has a great online crossword interface; the second one I attempted contained the clue: "What upset John—possibly." [Thaw] What a coincidence, I chuckled to myself. Then, a little further down the page, I came across this puzzle (by a different setter); I've filled in the relevant answers:
I think that's pretty remarkable. And I think that cryptic crossword puzzles, which appear in newspapers every single day and are enjoyed by millions of people, are just as much of a niche interest as classical music, except that nobody accuses crosswords of dying, do they?
Whoops, I'm slipping into the argument, which is not why I started writing this post. I'm trying to say that classical music can find life in all sorts of ways, and not all of them conventional. Classical music is not and does not have to be all about the notes on the page or sitting still and listening quietly in concert halls. It's also about personalities and culture (and cults of personality) and connections and intersections with other interests, and these are often the things that bring new fans into the fold. Fans like me, who eventually get so into it, they go far, far beyond the original source material and attempt to do crazy things like write their own operas and finish Ph.D.s on the subject.
Friday, January 24, 2014
Something that has always bugged me is the way the Western human brain, as it's currently encultured, is pretty bad at judging quantitative equality. In smaller words: our society is so geared towards white men that we have trouble noticing when minorities are underrepresented. Most of us can look at, for example, a room full of American Congressmen and not feel particularly concerned that it is only 18% female.
This has been reported most recently thanks to the efforts of Geena Davis (who is the fucking bomb). She has established a whole institute devoted to gender in media whose job it is to point out uncomfortable truths such as: only one-third of speaking roles in films are for female characters. So for every woman speaking, there are two men. One of the statistics she highlights is particularly fascinating:
Crowd scenes [in films] are only 17% female; one study found that men have come to perceive that 17% ratio as 50/50.As I mentioned in my previous blog post, I sometimes feel that women in music are lost in a sea of men (with brown hair and glasses). I feel a responsibility to be more visible to set an example and make up for the fact that there are so few women writing new art music. The trailing edge of that visible sword is that once the number of women reaches about 17%, a lot of observers—who aren't actually counting, but just looking—will think that equality has been reached. No more to be done here! Women have all the representation they need now, right?
Are you a comfortable feminist? Feel like scaring yourself a little? Next time you find some kind of gender-neutral "list" of people, scan it and try to decide what the percentage of women to men is. I came across this silly list "49 Creative Geniuses Who Use Blogging to Promote Their Art" on the horribly named website "boostblogtraffic.com" [shudder]. Hey, it was linked on a Reddit forum; I was curious who had been included.
I scanned through the list very quickly, taking particular note of the musicians. But when I reached the end, I suddenly thought of the statistics on female representation and perception and saw an opportunity to test myself.
Stop. Don't look at the list again for a minute. Did you feel that women were well represented? Yes, I thought to myself. It ... it seemed pretty even, didn't it? I began dreaming up a theory that perhaps women, being members of traditionally the more social gender and the gender which, at least when I was a kid, was prone to keeping diaries, were on equal footing when it came to blogging about their experiences as artists. Certainly, I read blogs by just as many women as men, don't I? Don't I? Amanda Palmer! That's who I immediately think of when I consider artists who have used their blogs to connect with their audiences. She was on the list, of course. And there were lots of other women there too, from many different disciplines. There were even some women of color. The leading picture was even a ... clown woman with a megaphone (that's an analysis for another day). So it must have been fairly close to even.
OK, time to tally. No cheating.
There were actually 50 people on the list, since one of the entries was a husband-wife team.
Number of women: 18.
Number of men: 32.
SHIT. My heart = on the floor.
It's not quite a 1:2 ratio, but it's close enough.
I am a feminist who considers herself aware of issues of female underrepresentation. But I'm also part of a culture where I have internalized this warped perception, where I see a pie divided into two-thirds and one-third, and I think it's split right down the middle.
Everyone should do this. You have to catch yourself after you look at a crowd, though, to make sure you aren't subconsciously counting. Do it so you understand how far we have to go.
Monday, January 20, 2014
We also noticed that there's a Fogo de Chão right across the street. I'm pretty much always in the mood for Fogo de Chão. This calls for a second Manhattan date.
So we made a reservation for dinner, and yesterday, we drove up to NYC for the second Sunday in a row to take advantage of free parking and discover if we had been to MoMa before (yes, we had, but who needs an excuse to go again?). Unfortunatelyyyyyyy, the Magritte exhibition closed last Monday! Sadface. But looking through the glass doors of the roped-off gallery, we could see that they hadn't quite finished packing it away, which was honestly pretty interesting in its own way.
One of the things I love most about modern art is that it always gives me design ideas that I can use around my house. For example, after seeing the white paintings at the Guggenheim, Matt and I went all Rauschenberg in our living room:
A lot of people don't find modern art (or modern music) very accessible, but for DIY, it's a godsend. Hey, that design looks cool, and I can totally copy it, at least until I become a multimillionaire and can afford to support more artists by buying their stuff (unless they're dead, in which case they don't really need my support).
Here are the works I saw during this trip to MoMa that tasted ripe with DIY inspiration.
|Joseph Cornell, Untitled (Bébé Marie), early 1940s|
|Joseph Cornell, Untitled (Hôtel Beau-Séjour), 1954|
I saw these and immediately thought, OMG, I need to make some sweet dioramas/shadow boxes to hang on the wall, stat. Then I came home and read this post from user nickyskye on Metafilter:
[...] I was introduced to Cornell when I was 11. The person who introduced me had been told by a renowned art collector that "Joseph likes quiche lorraine and little girls". I was taken out to his place, 37-08 Utopia Parkway, Flushing in 1965 with that person, who had also purchased a quiche lorraine for the occasion, in case I wasn't a suitable offering. She wanted his art and I was going to be the bait used to procure it...And now I feel a bit ill. Still. Dioramas.
|Mondrian (duh), Broadway Boogie Woogie, 1942-43|
|Donald Judd, Untitled (Stack), 1967|
Here is something that might be my new favorite thing at MoMa (it was just installed last year):
If you want to see the video by itself, you can view it on YouTube, but I kind of loved watching it with the noise of the MoMa cafe close by and people walking past and little children meowing at the screen, so I've posted the crappy video I shot. This makes me want to make little films of all our cats and write some piano music for the soundtracks. And then project them looping on all our walls, all the time.
Speaking of cats, this sculpture reminded me of two of ours, Nairobi and Inky, who play-wrestle with each other constantly.
|Maria Martins, The Impossible, III, 1946|
While I'm veering off topic, I also want to mention the exhibition about women's influence on applied design and art that yielded some great feminist stuff like this:
...and this AMAZING music video, which caught our attention as soon as we were within earshot because you can sing Down In It to that beat all day. (Hrmmm!) Once we were within eyeshot, we were like, HEY that platinum-wigged lead singer kind of looks like me. (Crazy trivia: she is now a real estate agent in Austin.)
Finally, this piece brings this post and our consecutive weekend dates full circle.
Clearly, this man is waiting for Godot (even though he predates Godot by more than thirty years):
|Elie Madelman, Man in the Open Air, c.1915|
Tuesday, January 14, 2014
I'd also love to be in Godot one day, a fact not lost on my many acting students, male and female, whom I have forced to read Godot with me. Frankly I don't think any of the characters require a male actor, but I especially identify with Didi, who as far as I am concerned, might as well be a woman.
|Or maybe I watched too much Hunter growing up.|
Dear Dead Samuel Beckett: as a woman who has pissed razors every five minutes as a sufferer of countless urinary tract infections (far more common in women than men), as a woman who has seen how childbirth affects continence in so many women, including, for example, my own mother: FUCK. YOU.
If I didn't love the actual play so much, and Beckett weren't dead, I would probably be angrier about this, but as it is, I think the best revenge might be to just ignore the creator's stupidity and take his creation beyond its restricted intention.
I would hop back on the boards for Didi. Also Richard III and Mark Antony, in case anyone is wondering.
Friday, January 10, 2014
Anyway, as it turns out, getting off Cymbalta is fairly annoying. There are plenty of posts on the internet that describe exactly what I'm going through, so I won't bore you with the details, except to say that I get brain zaps like woah. And also to mention that I think this might be affecting my computer.
OK, not really. Superstitiously. But ... I mean, the thought is there.
I have always sort of vaguely half-believed—or at least been fascinated by—the notion that you might be able to affect your computer with your brain. I read about fringe-y studies that show some kind of mind-effect on computers back in 2001, and I used to joke about it back when I worked in IT. What else could explain how some people seem to have such trouble with computers, while others don't? Haven't you ever had an experience where you do something over and over again on a computer but can't the result you want, and then someone comes over and does the exact same thing, and suddenly it works? (No, don't ruin my train of thought with you skepticism and logical explanations LALALALALA.) I swear I've seen this effect in action so many times. I used to demonstrate it with printers pretty regularly when I had an office job. I would just kind of hang out with a troublesome printer for a while, peer into its guts maybe, and the next thing you know, it's printing without a hiccup. They called me the Printer Whisperer.
Anyway, I have gone through periods of my life where my computers have refused to behave as intended; generally, these have been pretty dark periods for me, mood-wise. There was one ex-computer in particular, a Compaq Presario I dated, I mean, owned from 2000-2002, that regularly brought me to tears, and which I credit for teaching me how to build a computer because it broke so often. As I mentioned in a post last month (coincidentally—or not!—around the time I started stepping down my Cymbalta dose) my current set-up has started to give me grief after 18 months of very smooth sailing. First, it was the capacitors in my speaker. Then the battery in my UPS completely bit the dust. Soon afterward, my desktop refused to boot; actually, it refused to even POST. After exhaustively disassembling it and testing and retesting every single damn component for hours, I narrowed it down to the motherboard and bought a replacement. Hooray, it POST-ed, but then came hiccups with the BIOS, and now the video card, which is causing the system to freeze and shutdown automatically without error codes. I'm currently waiting for a replacement video card to arrive.
In other words, since beginning to experience Cymbalta withdrawal, I've had to buy new capacitors, a UPS battery, a motherboard, graphics card, and thermal paste; I'm out well over $250.
It feels like the ghost of that Compaq is coming back to haunt me. Or maybe my serotonin-starved brain, zapping away every few seconds, is doing bad things to my electronics.
I got away from my desktop today, since I seem to be breaking it with my mind constantly, and instead taught myself how to do applique. Behold! My first applique, which now adorns the front of an old sweatshirt with toothpaste stains on it:
I used a pre-made llama from Etsy and gussied it up with teeth and a saddle and the Andes and shit.
Other things I did this week, that give me hope that ditching Cymbalta will turn out OK:
- Watched some opera, via the Metropolitan Opera On Demand service. I forgot to mention in my previous post about depression that it also makes me not really want to listen to any music at all, so this was kind of a big deal.
- Popped some Dramamine to tone down the dizziness and stumbled out of my house to visit the kung fu place. I officially start training tomorrow. This is probably an even bigger deal.
Saturday, January 04, 2014
I'm 33, and I got married 10 years ago — when I was 23! It was not something I expected myself to do, but funny thing: it has been freaking awesome. As you can see from previous entries on this blog, we have a total freaking blast being married.
I'm not even going to touch the actual post, with its statistics that are older than the author, and bizarre assumptions that we stop developing dreams and selves after marriage. I'm just going to look at the author's funny-ass list.
1. Get a passport.
Hahaha, guess what, I got an EXTRA passport when I got married. Now I have TWO. Beat that, sucka!
2. Find your “thing.”
Assuming you mean life calling, yeah, I found that (music composition) the year after I got married. Getting married and moving halfway around the world actually helped me find it.
3. Make out with a stranger.
I guess I did that semi-regularly back when I was an actor; again, I only started acting on a regular basis after I got married. But I can tell you from my teenaged experiences that sometimes this action leads to glandular fever a.k.a. mono, and that is definitely not something you really want to do, so no, I do not recommend.
4. Adopt a pet.
Does five cats count? Huh? FIVE CATS? (One died.) Did you know: adopting four-cats-at-once as a couple makes you only half as crazy as you would be if you adopted four cats as a single person. It's science.
5. Start a band.
Hahaha, I started a band WITH MY HUSBAND, booyah.
6. Make a cake. Make a second cake. Have your cake and eat it too.
I do this all the time. Also, when we got married, and at our tenth anniversary party, we had five-plus cheesecakes in different flavors, and we ate the shit out of them, together.
7. Get a tattoo. It’s more permanent than a marriage.
OMG, I got a tattoo this year, and also the year before, check them out! My husband says they are cool:
8. Explore a new religion.
I'm not sure what you mean by "explore," but I find this a little culturally appropriative.
9. Start a small business.
I did. It's cool, my husband helps out.
10. Cut your hair.
Pshaw, I am so much more hardcore. I cut my own hair, and I dye it too. And I cut my husband's hair when he asks. (Right now he has a mohawk, because marriage is so punk rock like that.)
11. Date two people at once and see how long it takes to blow up in your face.
This is a really stupid idea. Unless the two people are into it, in which case, it is called polyamory, and some people are OK with that, and that is OK.
12. Build something with your hands.
I renovated our goddamn house. Myself. With my hands. My husband helped. It was cool. Then we rented it out, which makes us landlords, or as I prefer, "landed gentry."
13. Accomplish a Pinterest project.
OK, you got me, I don't really know what this means. I guess I married too young to understand.
14. Join the Peace Corps.
I could not have joined the Peace Corps because I was not a US citizen before I got married! I guess I could join the Peace Corps now but I am kind of busy becoming a doctor.
15. Disappoint your parents.
Hahaha, done and done: I'm not becoming that kind of doctor!
16. Watch GIRLS, over and over again.
I can't; I don't have HBO and I don't feel like pirating it. Can I just watch the X-Files again?
17. Eat a jar of Nutella in one sitting.
Pffft, why not get married AND eat a jar of Nutella in one sitting?
18. Make strangers feel uncomfortable in public places.
We have done this so many times since getting married it is not even funny! My husband's special is donkey noises.
19. Sign up for CrossFit.
We have friends who are really into CrossFit, but I would rather sign up for kung fu. No offense to CrossFit people, but ... I think kung fu is cooler than CrossFit. Is that because I married so young? Who knows.
20. Hangout naked in front of a window.
Every morning, baby. The window has blinds though. Well, sometimes when the blinds are open, my husband and I make jokes about showing our privates to everyone in the neighborhood, and how we shouldn't really do that because our privates are for EACH OTHER ONLY because MARRIAGE and SANCTITY.
21. Write your feelings down in a blog.
22. Be selfish.
Oh god, you're a freaking Shruggalo, aren't you?
23. Come with me to the Philippines for Chinese New Year.
And hang out with a Shruggalo? Pass.
Friday, January 03, 2014
Really, it is, though. It is fucking boring and annoying. I suppose one expects depression to be a little more dramatic than it is. But what I have is not even slightly dramatic. For example, I am able to be base-line functional most of the time. I am not suicidal. I suppose I have had thoughts about simply "not existing" occasionally, but that is a very passive thought and a long way from suicide. (I can understand how some people suddenly become suicidal when starting depression meds and passivity yields to activity, however.) Also, I don't do things like self-medicate with alcohol or illegal drugs, I don't have psychotic breaks (one time I had a weird and very brief dissociative episode, but that might be a PTSD thing), and I haven't yet become a hoarder.
Here are some things that my depression has caused:
- anhedonia, oh god, so much shitty, shitty anhedonia
- feeling like I'm thinking through a fog
- hating nearly everything I have ever composed
- hearing something I have composed that I do like, and being convinced that I have no idea how I did it and will never write like that again
- sleeping/waking inertia i.e. sleeping for 15 hours sometimes because I can't be bothered waking up; staying awake until 5AM sometimes because I can't be bothered going to bed
- not being able to read more than 10 pages of a book at a time without falling asleep
- exhaustion after any kind of social interaction
- not wanting to talk to anyone, even nice people
- not wanting to answer any e-mails, even good ones
- horrible anxiety when compelled to engage in unpleasant communication
- horrible anxiety when compelled to make a decision, even about unimportant things
- not wanting to leave the house
- sitting in my underwear watching bad television for days on end
- getting overly emotional about bad television while being unable to feel anything about my actual life
- realizing that all my depressive symptoms are irrational and indicative of something being wrong with me, and loathing myself for being unable to think in a way that isn't irrational and wrong
- Prozac (awful, nearly cost me my marriage)
- therapy (helpful, I really like my therapist, though the depression persists)
- meditation/yoga (not helpful; kept falling asleep)
- Wellbutrin (speedy as hell and helpful at first, although it caused me to lose 10% of my body weight despite shoveling cheeseburgers and lard pastries into my mouth in between venti caramel macchiatos with whipped cream; then it kind of stopped working so well and the anhedonia came back)
- vitamins (all the vitamins, but especially D and fish oil; no tangible effect at all)
- gluten-free diet (no physical or mental effect, except I missed bread too much)
- light therapy (fairly helpful)
- Cymbalta (is it working? I honestly have no idea)
- removed NuvaRing and went off any hormonal birth control for the first time in 16 years (may be helping, not 100% sure yet)
A few weeks ago, I messaged my friend who is going to a kung fu place near me. Writing a message = huge step. Today, I visited the kung fu place while Matt and I were in Chinatown for lunch. I know, crazy; I left the house. They weren't open, but I am pretty proud of myself for going up to the door and looking at the photos posted outside. What an achievement. My ultimate goal is to one day walk in while they are open and speak to the sifu about attending. I have a lot of anxiety about that. It's a depression thing. I guess. I hate myself.
Here's to 2014!
|This is what I looked like when I did kung fu years ago.|
Just looking at this makes me feel kind of hopeless.
[Has someone already done this? I wasn't sure, so I figured I'd do it myself.]
|A picture of David Brooks, |
apropos of nothing.